My Reaction To Failure

My Reaction To Failure

Are you feeling like a failure in your life right now and you feel like you're not getting anywhere? Hold your head up sis because you can get back on your feet and try again. Even in your lowest of hopes, just keep your head up just to make it through.

First of all, failure is what helps you to learn from your mistakes until you get it right. Giving up may be an option but that's not going to get you anywhere. You may have failed a test, you may not have a chance to go to college, your car broke down in the middle of the road, etc. but if you just try hard then things will turn out better for you. You're probably at the point where you're critically ill or that your life is about to end while your significant other is cheating on you or whatever. As bad as it may seem, it's all about living for the good moments and congratulating yourself for everything that you've overcome your entire life.

The definition of failure is “lack of success.” The key word here is “lack.” This means that every time you make a mistake, it doesn't mean that there was absolutely no success put into it (unless you didn’t try). You have to think of other options to reach success. Go for plan A. If plan A didn’t work, go for plan B and if that doesn’t work either, keep going for all the alphabets until you get it right. People always say that the first attempt is always the hardest and that’s a fact. The first attempt is all about learning.

You never know what life may lead you to if you keep trying and going. You can end up working for the career you’ve always. If you quit and say “I’m not doing this anymore,” then you’re never going to live and follow your dreams. Everyone makes mistakes anyways. It’s a part of life. If you work to make it, you can end up being a huge influence to the world and be a role model to millions and millions of people. For me, I never give up. I keep on going. I may feel tired at times but I won’t let that stop me from getting my education and finishing college. Therefore, you should be like me because i’m full of motivation and i’m preparing for my future.

You should never feel like a failure. You’re not just a human being. You’re a multitasking, fast thinking, hard working killing machine. You’re an individual who’s starting to see what the world is really like and how life is leading you to a journey. You just have to find the ways life may be leading you and you have to choose the right directions to end up in the right place. Learning is an adventure and the more you learn, the more comfortable you get when you’re finishing a task. Forget all of those people who are trying to bring you down. Forget all of those people who say you won’t make it because I know you can win on The Voice when you audition there (if you’re planning to).

5 More Don'ts Of What Not To Do This New Year

1. Don't Waste Your Money

We all know this. I know you've heard it before and you know you have to learn how to save your dollars if you know you're broke because in the future especially if you're a teenager, you gotta save that cash for college, a new house, etc. It's okay to buy whatever you want at times but you can't be splurging often. When you grow up, you also gotta spend your dollars on your kids (if you want kids in the future). 

2. Don't Let Your Anger Control You 

This is a very important thing to do for the new year but I hope you've been doing this your whole life or for a really long time at least. If you always let your emotions control the things you do in life then listen up. You probably ended up in jail, lost friends, been in way too many fights because you let your anger control you. I'm not saying you've done all of them but you were probably in a really bad situation because you've done something that wasn't smart since you were angry. Do not do that because that prevents you from having a great future. 

3. Don't Procrastinate

You better not do this and if you've been procrastinating for a really long time, you need to stop. You need to learn how to manage your time and not do school work in the last minute because you'll end up making mistakes in your school work and you rushed through it. Doing this leads to a bad grade. Not only that, if you've been lying around and chilling, playing video games or whatever when you got work to do, then you need to stop it. Procrastinating is not a good thing and it's just a waste of time. 

4. Don't Drink And Drive

If you're planning to go to a party and there's alcohol involved, you should never go over your limits of drinking. If you do, you'll end up forgetting that you're drunk and end up driving until you get into an accident! Always ask a friend for a ride or get an Uber if you're drunk after partying and you wanna go home. Take time to get sober when you're at the party so that you won't end up doing something stupid. 

5. Don't Be Conceited

Always stay humble. If you're too conceited and you think you're better than everybody else, you're not. You need to stop letting your ego take over you. Being full of yourself is so selfish and the way you treat others will be the way you'll get treated.